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Take Ferris Buller's point on this. Which is , oddly enough, true. The reason the nice guys get walked on and the pricks get the girls is that no girl will ever respect someone who is nice to a fault. How can you respect someone who kisses your ass? It's simple, you don't. I had fun time dealing with this in high school, then realized when i got to college that women who go after the a$$holes are either a) blantantly dumb (and there are quite a few) or b) need a little drama in their life so that they have something to talk about with sisters at 3 a.m. after he embarrasses her by kissing someone else at a bar. Women who have figured out how to eliminate dumbasses while maintaining self dignity get much props from me. The go for the jerk syndrome is in effect in real life as well, which is why I don't buy the whole"nice guys finish first" thing. How many nice guys do you think make it to be a corporate CEO or something like that. The answer is most likely zero, cause the nice guys are the ones who are diligent in their work so that people will be happy with them, not the guys who are ballsy and a$$hole enough to risk everything so that they can have everything. Just some food for thought for ya.
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