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I think my perspective is a little bit different than most of my friends because, unlike most girls, I may have been *attracted* to the mysterious, player guys, but have never dated one. That could be, however, because I've been with one of the "nice guys" for almost four years now, basically all of my 'dating' life. The truth of the matter is that, if a girl is honest, she will admit that she likes a little challenge and a little mystery, but more than that she likes to be appreciated, wanted, and respected. I'd take a nice guy who opens my car door, calls me when he says he will and appreciates me for who I am over anyone else in the world, I'll tell you that much!
It causes a few problems when I try to give advice to my girlfriends though; they haven't outgrown that "bad guy" attraction thing and I just don't know how many more nights I can console them after a player has broken their hearts...sometimes it's easier to give advice then take it, but I really wish they'd take mine.
So here it is, for all the freshmen girls (and anyone else who needs to hear it) out there: The bad boy may be fun for a month, maybe even two, but getting seriously attached to anyone but a good guy at heart is trouble!!
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