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Relationships should compliment a man or woman, not complete him/her.
In order to find someone who is right, we must ourselves first be right. To much the same effect, to find someone who is whole, we must first seek to first be whole in and of ourselves. I think a lot of relationships fall apart because people get into them, expecting the other person to give them what they must ultimately seek within themselves. It would be a hell of a burden if my significant other expected me to help him become "whole".
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"Men often become what they believe themselves to be. If I believe I cannot do something, it makes me incapable of doing it. But when I believe I can, then I acquire the ability to do it even if I didn't have it in the beginning."-Gandhi
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