I 100% agree with that particular e-mail. I am actually in that situation now and can TRULY see the validity of what is being said. I think that I continue to use the same lame azz excuses about maybe he has to complete x,y,z before he can commit or he's been seriously injured in a previous relationship. That's pure CRAP! Believe you me I'm not on a bandwagon to get married (been there done that); however, after spending 2 1/2 years with someone and there isn't a set goal or plan in mind-- you've got to be real with what you're dealing with! I've got to go back to school because I've truly missed some lessons in the past and am continuing to revisit them now in the present. Okay, why am I venting on GC!
