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You've been given great advice. Though some of it SEEMS to conflict, it really doesn't. So many things in life can be compared to "foreplay". Rushing ANYTHING diminishes the end result. That's why ZTAngel's post is so accurate-keep a little mystery in the relationship. G8Ralphaxi made another excellent point-You have to "catch" them at the right time. Don't forget that women are seeing a smorgasbord just like the guys are. They also see all the PNR (Potential New Relationships HA!) college and graduate life has to offer. Don't change your life at the start of any new relationship. Let her be as eager to see you as you are to see her. Allow her to make some of those first moves as well. Most of all-Be confident. If YOU don't think a lot of yourself, why should anyone else?(MY Mom's advice) Lifesaver-NEVER settle you are WAY too wonderful for that!
Here's a little exercise to try. You see her, flash a charming smile but don't hold it too long. TURN AWAY FIRST and go talk warmly to a girl friend. Repeat this after a LONG wait-NO OVERKILL-and see if "the look" holds longer each time. Let her know you SEE her, but make sure she really SEES you. You may be surprised at the results. This barometer ALWAYS worked for me and let me know what level of interest existed.
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