Soror 411, I feel you with that statement on how men and women view love. It's sad, but true. I have been in that situation, and it's sad to say that I have played both sides of that coin. I think it is because most women hope that by having sex with a man, she will win him over. Women tend to think more long term, but men seem to be all about the moment. They aren't trying to think about the next day, or next week or next month. They know what they want in the present, the future will come later when in comes to women and sex. That's just my opinion.
But Total Elegance, I feel you on your point about men and marriage. In fact, my boyfriend just proposed to me three weeks ago. We've known each other for about a year and a half and have been serious for about 6 months now. But only after being committed for a few months, he began talking about marriage. He once told me early on in our relationship that he has never fully trusted any woman - he's had a great deal of trust in past girlfriends, but never a blind trust. And whenever he found a woman he could blindly trust - that woman would be his wife. And that's going to be me pretty soon
But yeah, I just wanted to say I can see where you are coming from with that.
Just my $19.13 cents worth.
Alexis
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Rho Iota, Spring 2001