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Originally posted by GoldenGlow2000
I was listening to the radio yesterday and the topic of the day was: Completeness. Do you feel that you need a significant other in order to feel complete?
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No
Growing up, I was always told to make sure I take care of my self because at some point myself is all I will have. I feel secure enough in myself to not define my life by having or not having a mate. I have so many other "things" in my life to take accomplishment in that I don’t have time to "fret" over something like that. Now, i would love to have that perfect mate but in my experience in life (+30 years) this is not possible. I also have trust issues. It's a dependability thing.
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Originally posted by jubilance1922
I don't believe in completeness through another person. Only I can complete me. I do believe in complementary mates, because I would like someone who could be stronger where I am weaker, and vice versa.
I also believe that each person should give 100%, not 50% to make it work...but that's just me.
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I agree with you soror.