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I encouraged Rushee #2 to get recs, she chose to take the advice of the recruitment counselor who said they aren't necessary, even though this is a southern school. Also, she has friends who are in sororities already and they (sophomores) told her "Oh we want you in our sorority" or stuff like that. I'm sure since the friends have not been through rush on the other side yet, they did not know that they shouldn't say that, and that it is really not up to them alone to get their friends in. She also told her mother not to get recs to the legacy sorority because she didn't want to be in it. Also a mistake as far as I am concerned, but she's not my kid. It will be interesting though to compare their experiences.
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