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Hey Christi!
I'm so happy you have found a house that you love and that you seem to fit in well with.
There are no bad sororities at UF, and certainly none that are desperate for members. SEC sororities are far from "desperate".
If I were one of those "UF women perusing the board" (which I take to mean -- one of the women involved with rush in the sorority you love), I would be flattered of the way you speak of its members and organization. I do think, however, that until you get that bid in your hand, it's best to be discreet. I know you're excited, but wait until it's official, and then you can shout it from the rooftops-- and we'll be here cheering for you!
It sounds like you've really clicked with one member, and she seems to be rushing you really hard-- but as FSU Zeta said, there still has to be a vote-- so it's a bit premature to think that you're definately going to get a bid. I would hate for you to get your heart set on it, and then be disappointed.
Things may have changed, but as I recall, spring recruitment had three rounds. After the final round-- that night-- a group of representatives from the sorority would come to your dorm or apartment with flowers and a bid card and ask you if you'd like to pledge. And, as I recall, most of the sororities gave out bids on that same night-- because-- I remember all the banging on the doors and screams of excitement when I lived in the dorms.
It was a special night!
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