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I can hear how excited you are about this chapter. I want to make sure you are properly informed.
As the above poster stated, you have to be offered a bid. You can't just say "I want a bid" and get one. It sounds to me like the recruitment chair is misinformed. This isn't unusual. She may be new to her role or to COB.
I think the best way to resolve this is to just do as she said-- in different words "Suzie, I love XYZ and I'd be honored to take the next step" or something along those lines-- this way she knows your interest and intent.
But from there, it is up to the chapter to offer you the bid. And from there, you either accept or decline.
I say if you feel comfortable at this chapter, go for it.
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