[alphachiohmy]

Not too make anyone mad or anything, I dont agree with a guy going out of his way to be nice or creating a challenge for mystery if thats not who you are as a person.

In a relationship, whether its a friend or a guy your dating, being truthful and honesty is key, in my opinion. If a guy likes to buy flowers for girls he dates by all means he should - but it shouldn't be done if that is not who that person is. On the same token, if a guy puts up a facade that he is a challenge but that is not who he really is, a relationship will be flimsy.

I guess I am just an advocate for being yourself in a relationship and being honest and level with who you are dating. I understand that its harder in reality than it sounds on paper(or a computer screen).

If you try to be something you are not , that appearence won't hold up for long. And then where will you be left?