Caution, this is post is brutally honest:
Just like guys, girls LOVE a challenge. I don't have enough fingers and toes to count how many jerks I have dated. The guy who called me everyday, right on time....got kinda sick of him. Now, the guy, who didn't call me for a week straight, I was head over heels for (until I caught him making out with my 'best friend' but that's a whole other story.........). I'm not at all saying for you to pretend like you like a girl to get her into bed just so that you can get your sausage wet (sorry, had to go there
) or to be outright mean to every girl you date or cheat on your girlfriend with her best friend (grrrrrrrrrrrr) but create a little challenge. The guy I'm with now is a "nice guy". He opens my car door for me (I had NEVER had a guy who had done that for me), won't let me pay when we go out for dinner unless I throw a fit about it (I feel bad when he won't let me pay...I'm too nice), and who opens doors for me. Although he was a "nice guy", he did present a challenge. He'd tell me that he'd call at 7pm. I'd get a call at 9pm. He didn't let me know whether or not he was dating anyone else (he wasn't but he kept that a secret....for the challenge effect
). And, on one of our first dates, while we were at the movies, he ran into this girl that he was friends with and gave her this HUGE hug. I cringed. But, it made me want him more. Although he was so sweet to me, he created this whole mystery about him. And I loved it. Almost a year later, we are still together!