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-Never forget that COB is 24/7, 365 days a year! If you're headed out for an ice cream, call a PNM & ask if she'd like to join you. Interesting movie or documentary on tv? Ask a PNM if she's interested. Art show or Museum showing? Take a PNM. Going to a "fun" restaurant? Yep, take a PNM.
-If you know that you & a PNM have something in common, build on it! If you both miss your dogs, think about offering to walk some dogs for the Humane Society.
-If you're at a party and you see a PNM alone (around closing time), offer to take her home.
-If you're in a club together, make the most of it! Sit with her, get on the same team with her, etc. When I was a PNM, but before Rush, a XYZ & I were both tour hostesses, so we quizzed each other.
ETA: A lot of these things can be done in a group. Each PNM is different, and you need to respect that. Some respond to one on one situations better, while others prefer the group approach. The sooner you figure that out about each PNM, the easier it will go!
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Last edited by honeychile; 01-23-2006 at 03:29 PM.
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