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Go to the party and be yourself. Tell them your sister had such a great experience in her own chapter and has influenced your interest in Greek Life. It's ok to tell them you are a legacy to them. Tell them about you, your accomplishments, your interests. Ask them questions about themselves, their interests, their experience in XYZ. Ask questions about XYZ as an organization.
And it is ok to tell them too, "I'm having a great time here at XYZ and I have loved meeting everyone. You've all made me feel so comfortable."
What you don't want to do is come off as desperate or psycho (that's where the first date analogy comes in-- Remember the Egg Girl on The Bachelor? She freaked the guy out. It's ok to tell them you're interested, to "flirt," but don't send out birth announcements yet!)
It's ok to take a bid if you feel it is the right thing to do. Yes, you get to see every sorority at Fall Recruitment, but if you click with a chaper at COB, go with your gut!
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