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while it is good that you feel a connection with the girls you met so far, i would suggest waiting to share your initial thoughts and feelings with them until you have met more members and have a few more parties under your belt. you don't want to rush anything(on your part or theirs). just give them some time to get to know you. you have been non-greek for a whole semester-a few more weeks really won't matter.
look at this hypothetical- you are on a first date. would you tell your date that you are not going to date any other guys, or that you have already made up your mind, and are sold on him? he would run, not walk to the nearest exit. while the sorority members won't have the exact same reaction as a guy, it might send up a red flag that you are more in to being a member of ANY sorority, rather that being a member of their sorority.
did your sister send a recommendation for you? if not, she should,asap.
i am sorry that you had a less than terrific conversation with the member of the other sorority, and it is too bad for that chapter that their representative was not on top of her game last night.
i hope that things work out for you this semester. just take things a little slower than you intended(pace yourself) and you should do fine.
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