[straightBOS]

From what I know about alcoholism.. (watching too much Dateline), you are never truly "cured". Instead you are always a re-covering alcoholic and must be on guard against old behaviors and patterns that may return you to the bottle. Now, if I have to watch my man against sexual advances towards or from other men, then what's really going on?

Also, I am of the opinion that a bisexual is a homosexual trying to conform to society's standards. So, he may still have homosexual tendencies, but surpresses them so that he is not ostracized.. and that cannot be good for either of us.

It's hard enough to avoid the dogs, two-timers, and players... I can't see why I would add another obstacle in my road to happiness.