I'd wondered when Tom's stay at home dad thing would start to effect him. "Emasculated"? Wasn't he the one who told Lynnette that he didn't want to work anymore?
that is exactly the same thing I said - I was like umm dude weren't you the one who said you wanted to stay home . . make up your mind! if anything was less than masculine was him acting like a big baby about taking care of the kids when they had chicken pox . . .