Thank you humble for your comment. I think that is the word that definitely has been missed throughout the conversation.
I want to take it back to when I said "overlyconfident." I agree with what Crucial Crimson said in that being arrogant and thinks that they should be the one sought after rather than approaching the sorority itself. That's fine if that's the type of person you are but that don't work in DELTA!!!! We are all women of purpose and one does not outshine the other.
Getting back to why I said OVERLY CONFIDENT. I made that statement based on the things I said and how I carried myself during my interview the second go round. You see I went in there thinking to myself, "I know all this information, I just need to know when the money is due and when should expect a phone call." I felt that since these were the same women I sat next to at the rush 2 years prior and I got to know them, that I was guaranteed acceptance. But with anything in life, stuff doesn't always happen the way we want it to and for that God had me wait a few more years because He knew I wasn't ready (Delta would have gone to my head if I crossed undergrad).
Yes you can carry yourself in a dignified way and full of pride and what have you but at the same time there comes a point where you need to be humble. Those who have gone through the process know what I'm talking about. I have a best friend that crossed Fall '95 at XU and when I was going through this she told me to pray for several things:
1. Meekness
2. Humbleness
3. Patience
I know there are a couple of other things but I can only remember those 2 right now.
But you get the point. Those who are interested please keep those 3 points in mind when praying because those are important characteristics to have when seeking membership and it will show in not only your interview but also in the way you carry and conduct yourself.
Thanks again for taking the time to read this long message.
Continue to be Blessed.
Soulful Inspiration
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