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Originally posted by twocutetx
That's where I've been confused!
I was also told directly by one sorority here (that I contacted about COB) that I was not eligible for their undergrad program because I'm married.
I'm thinking perhaps I'll copy the emails from the National office of one of the sorors that I have been chatting with here hehe. . actually I won't (wouldn't -- not very polite) -- but I was told directly that if I were NOT in school (ie not opted to return to finish) that I *would* be eligible for their AI program. It's the fact that I've gone back *boggles* I guess I don't really understand the premise. If I've been told incorrectly (and I will NOT name organizations here -- you are free to ask me privately though) I would love clarification.
*sighs*
Maybe I'll just wait until grad school. It's just frustrating at this point.
About my hubby -- he opted for alumnus (whichever form of the word -- I'm sorry that word gives me fits!) status when we married for a myriad of reasons. He actually was given the choice to remain an active -- and it was his decision. Once in awhile, he does express regret, but there is irony in his chapter having been suspended and now re-forming at our previous school.
*babbles*
~twocutetx
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Yep, we give our undergrads the option to go alum if they get married as well.
I can only speak for us, but yes because you are still an undergrad, you would not be eligible to AI. And yes, if you were not in school you would be eligible.
I'm not sure why they would automatically say you weren't eligible JUST because you were married, but I think getting a bid would be very slim.