So I suppose then it is really a matter of semantics.
My husband is a Pi Kappa Alpha alum -- he has been since we married
He has never finished his undergrad degree (and at this point most likely won't -- it would cost him more money to go back -- last time he tried they were using a book he wrote as the text for the class. He was quite upset that they wouldn't let him OUT of the class LOL).
At this point though, I'm investigating. Some consider women alumnae when they marry whether they are undergrad or not. It's actually rather fascinating.
Either way, I will most likely graduate in May, 2007. I'm continuing my volunteer activities and group involvements both in school and out, and continuing to learn about various sorors.
This truly is a journey!
~twocutetx