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while i admit sometimes i do slip and say 'was' (i do not mean that i am no longer a member) but i think it should matter more what i am doing than how i word something. people see me being involved as an alumn and a grad student. they see i am a greek and a delta zeta, even if i say i was in delta zeta at millersville. maybe the 'was' means that i was an active at that chapter and am no longer an active member of that chapter? maybe. im not sure, but that sounds more like what i mean. i mean no offense by it and usually explain my current involvement when the conversation arises, so i think it is fine. it'd be different if i was like 'i was an xyz.' and that was all i said.
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