Hey,
jess_pom, I used to live with an Alice type! I can sympathize on the party thing because she did almost the exact same thing to me...some girl she was friends with at work (who was rumored to moonlight as sort of an escort, I guess you'd say) was having some kind of get-together at a local bar and a couple well-known college athletes were going to be there. My roommate originally asked me if I wanted to come and I said sure because I didn't have any plans, but I guess her friend nixed the idea because that sort of went out the window. So not only did I get uninvited, but my roommate didn't even
tell me--she just started getting ready and then casually asked what I would be doing that night while she was out. But wait, here's the icing on the cake--she asked to borrow some of my clothes to go out in! I didn't know
what to say so I just let her, and then she ended up wearing one of my favorite tops and throwing up on it later that night...
That's why I live alone now.