justamom-- I just have to say you're the coolest.
My mom and I went thru a bit of a rough patch while I was in college and I barely spoke to her and she never came to visit me when I was at USC and Chi O. We both regret this now, as she's missed out on understanding some things (USC, Chi O) that are very important to me and integral to the adult I've become. The support you've shown here not only for your daughter and other rushees but for all of us GCers makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. I only hope someday I can learn from the mistakes I made, the arguements my mom and I had, and become the kind of supportive and fun mom you are!
Amy