Thanks s0phie! I was a wee bit confused and I agree that the 1 pref party does make you commit really early, especially if going to pref doesn't mostly mean that you're getting a bid. Can you list more than one sorority on your bid list/ ranking card/ whatever you use or is your pref your only choice?
Hopefully you'll get a feeling if you're just being strung along, but I wouldn't worry about it so much, especially earlier, you should focus on meeting the women and learning about each group!
Have fun!
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