[WVU alpha phi]

One of my good friends in my chapter is a legacy to another sorority at my school. The other sorority is very similar to mine; a lot of girls who pref us also pref them. Anyway, my friend's sister only graduated a few years ago, and she is from Morgantown, so she still knows some girls currently in the chapter. My friend told me that while her sister was slightly disappointed she didn't go with her chapter, she respected her choice and understood why she wanted to go with the chapter she fit into the most.

The only other girl in my family who went Greek is my cousin, who was an ADpi at Gettysburg College, so I've never dealt with any legacy situations or anything. However my chapter's personal policy is to offer all legacies a bid, which I don't always agree with. We have a few legacies who are not active at all in the chapter and I feel like they would've had a much better sorority experience if they'd joined a chapter where they felt comfortable, versus one they may have been pressured to join.