[honeychile]

The key word HAS to be "mutual".

We've had legacies who didn't like us. We've had legacies who didn't fit in. We've had other sororities' legacies who loved us, not their legacy chapter.

The best analogy I can think of right now is that yes, you do want your biological sister become your sorority sister. But she may have different ideas. I love my brother, but would never fit into the same GLO as he.

Give each legacy the respect she deserves, and the chance she deserves - and let her do the same. No one should be guilt tripped into joining XYZ because it's her legacy chapter.