[kddani]

There's a thread somewhere around here- in the rush forum- that's entitled "why you didn't get a bid."

Dressing appropriately, being polite, meeting grades and being a legacy are all well and good. But they're not enough to get a bid. Maybe you had a huge booger in your nose. Maybe you just weren't someone sisters could see themselves hanging out with. Maybe maybe maybe.

You'll never know, so why dwell on it? And if you don't want the bid you received, then drop so some other lucky lady can have your spot. There's nothing worse than sisters who don't want to be there or think they're too good to be there.

Editing after seeing another one of your posts-
It doesn't appear that you got three BIDS, you got 3 invites to second round and didn't accept ANY and didn't give ANY houses another chance? Then don't expect to find any sympathy here on GC. These houses, including the house you're a legacy to, took a chance and GAVE you an invite, wanting to get to know you better, and you didn't even give them the courtesy of going back again.

It would be one thing if you had really been offered bids by them and didn't want to accept a bid. That's fine, no one says that you have to join a house. But if you had invites, and dropped out, then it's your own fault. You are thinking and lamenting why those other houses didn't give you a chance in inviting you to a second party- but you didn't give those 3 houses, including your legacy house, another chance by attending their parties and seeing what they had to offer