[equeen]

...in front of Candidates (pledges, new members, etc.). Even if there is a difference of opinion with my Sisters, and even if I agree with the Candidate(s). HOWEVER...I may choose, after I have respectfully informed my Sister(s) that I disagree with their opinion/action, to profess to the Candidate that I see their point of view. I will even assist them in facilitating change - but only with the full knowledge and assent of the Chapter and my Sisters that I plan to take this action. And at that point, it's really something that the entire Sisterhood is unified for - thus making division a moot point.

I think this is a workable solution to the Catch-22 of respecting one's bond while nurturing the rising generation of Sisters.