Well I understand being offended by "oh you're pretty to be dark skinned" and the running the fingers through the hair which are unacceptable. But I guess I just can't understand that if it IS your hair, then why not be proud and say "yes this is my hair"? Especially since you come from a family that is blessed to have beautiful hair.
yes I know white women use fake hair now, but that didn't start just now, Bo Derek started that a long time ago

with her cornroll self. So do latino women now it seems.
I've heard all those other comments(baby making machines, etc) about other races just as well, but I am trying to stay on topic!
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