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thanks for the help guys. I will probably go ahead with it.
The big school issue is a major concern. I get the feeling that the sororities here are so intense about things, and there are so many competitions that they have to enter and they all want to win. My sister's school was private and very academic, so peopled rarely bothered with the things they do at my large state school. some houses told me they have required formal dinners every week and pratically every event is required, and events that are not are essential for bonding with the pledge class.
I have to admit that one major reason why I want to join is becasue alot of my friends are a bit tomboyish and not that "girlie" and I my sister told me there are always people dresing up for parties, formals, halloween, etc and I know my current friends won't do stuff like that with me. is that shallow of me?
also, the same sorority my sister was is has a chapter at my school, but the girls are not really my type, but I really want to be in the same one as my sister.
one more random question, How is living in a cold dorm? does that mean no privacy for the next 3 years?
and do sororites honestly not haze? I know GLOs always say they don't, but the fraternities certainly don't seem to follow that rule! my sister claims she wasn't, but since she is so secretive about all her sorority stuff I wouldn't doubt she was lying
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