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Originally posted by Honeykiss1974
I don't know if this is considered "marrying down" but I want a husband that is loves God, loves me, hardworking, romantic, and has a sense of humor. I want someone that I can discuss anything with, from the silly (ex. is Tupac still alive?) to the serious (ex. Walmart and its effects on the global marketplace) to the person (ex. he is my best friend in life).
I've met men that met these qualifications both with a degree and without one. If I marry someone without a degree, I would not consider him to be "beneath me" because truth be told, the only difference between me and him is the grace of God.
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I'm with you on this one. I really don't care about his financial or educational status. I care if we can relate, and like you, I have met men I can relate to both with and without degrees. Just because someone doesn't have a formal education doesn't mean I can't relate to them. I have also experienced NOT being able to relate to certain men, and again, this was with men with and without degrees. From my experience, it just depends on the man and if we 'click', not whether or not he makes money or is formally educated.