To stop using condoms? Is there ever a good time? Do you use them for protection against disease, pregnancy, or both? If you stopped using condoms with your mate, did you get an HIV test first?
[DISCLAIMER: This is NOT, I repeat, NOT, an attempt to get all up in people's biz. I'd like this to be a safe sex kind of discussion. If you feel uncomfortable posting your views/feelings, register under a bogus name. It's just that I can see how this might get personal/touchy. But it needs to be talked about.
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