I don't believe that any one forum is void of arrogance, rude undertones or trivalities any more or less than the other. Every one greek on these boards (not just BGLOs) gets "on edge" whenever something is taken as a slight towards our organizations. We all have our own reasons for joining our respective sororities/frats, so we tend to get prideful in our comments and statements. When in actuality, none of us are official spokespersons for our orgs. Yes, we're all entitled to our opinions, but at the same time, people try to force and impose THEIR views as law. Bonds here/P&G there/Luv this and that. Those are all interesting topics to me, but not to the point that I would argue, especially with someone from ANOTHER organization about. I know where my heart is and I know what I believe and see in MY world. That's always going to be different than someone else's view. So be it. I believe most of us come to these boards to share our views, not start drama...It just seems to me that most people lose sight that all BGLOs exist to serve our community at large. And our beginnings may differ by year, colors etc, but our our end goals are ultimately the same. A better community. Different paths are going to chosen by each individual, and my heart will always lie with Delta, but I find comfort in believing that most people chose their respective sororities/fraternities to better the communities. And in the end, that's all good with me, no matter what is said on these boards.
Pebbles #6
Delta Sigma Theta
G.E.A.A.C
Spr. '01
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