[lil_sunshine]

I don't think it's that they're hard to find. I think it's that women look too hard for them and set such high expectations for what they look for in a man. I understand that we as women want a man who has their stuff together, but we should also. You can't expect someone to love you if you don't love yourself. If you exude a down to earth attitude, and don't act like you're better than the universe, then the right man will come your way. I also think that if you have a male best friend, that would be a good start. That way, you know his familial background and you know what you're dealing with. He can be your shoulder to cry on, but once the tears have dried up and he's still there for you, then that's the best man of all. Besides GOD!!!