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Originally posted by PM_Mama00
This comment is kinda hypocritical of the rest of your post. Every person gets over a significant other differently. It's not fair to tell someone that just because they were never married or lived with that person, that they should get over it in a month tops. Maybe you haven't been hurt that much before by someone who you weren't married to or lived with, but many of us girls on the boards have.
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I'm sorry you feel that way, and maybe I should have said two months - but I can't see blowing your youth on sadness. I
have learned a lot from my mistakes, and one of them is to put an unhappy value on something because of a bad relationship.
Just today, I saw this horrifying awful candy that comes from the state my exhusband was from and was forced to "enjoy" at a local store. I got to laugh hysterically at the thought that someone else is having to choke those things down,
but I don't have to!!
In other words, it's a choice. What do you want, to avoid life because HE went here or there - or do you want to laugh at that, knowing that you're better than that?