lambdachirho,
I can definately feel your pain- when i came into my sorority, there were 5 sisters- and i got involved and recruited 15 girls that semester- now we are up to 30 but its defiantely been a huge uphill battle- worth it- but HARD lol
I am the incoming President this semester and am revamping a lot of things to help change with the times...
please email me with more details regarding your situation and i'll do what i can to give you ideas and stuff
my sn is alethiasi and my email is the same name but @yahoo.com....

i hope to hear from you!
~maggie