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Originally posted by brownsugar952
This statement really makes me think that basically you are damned if you do and damned if you don't. People will criticize you if you haze and then they would criticize you if you don't and they will can you paper. If you only do the required amount of community service, people will say you should do more. If you do tons of community service, people will say they don't want to join because greeks will take away their time from studying. People will always find a reason to be turned off with greek life no matter what you do. I just think greeks in general should just make sure they live up to the principles of their organization and not to listen to what others will say. If you all think you are doing your best and your national officers are pleased with you, that is all that matters.
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That's true.
In my case, the main thing that turns me off from pledging is the whole discretion thing. I can't get information I need like how much it costs b/c ur not supposed to let them know early on that u wanna pledge cause they'll be on ur case. I can understand wanting to know what the potential future of ur organization is about, but don't give them a hard time just b/c they express interest in wanting to be on a line in ur organization. Lucky for me it's not as bad for fraternities.