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Him calling you every night and saying that he loves you is just no fair to you, if he is the one who broke up with you. Its going to drive your emotions crazy getting these mixed signals. Him saying he cant imagine being with anyone else, but saying that he doesnt want to be with you is just bad on his part. He may be confused right now, bc honestly he still does love you, but there is a reason he broke it off.
I had a simular situation.. dated a guy for four years .. were in the process of talking marriage.. he moved across to the other side of the country, I cam with him.. but got homesick (someone in my immediate family died) so I just had to come home so he ended things. I was a wreck.
The only thing that worked.. not talking. We had to cut off all communication. It was hard at first and I was miserable for months, but we tried the whole talking every night thing at first and that was even worse on my emotions.
Its hard to not talk to them, when thats who you want to, but find other things to do. Other groups of friends to go out with.
Cant say that will make it any easier, hell its been what 2 years.. and when me and my ex talk it still upsets me.
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