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I think the collegians always feel a little uncomfortable with new advisors. They need time to get to know you and understand that you have the chapter's best interest at heart. You can convey this by spending some time telling them what they're doing right. I usually get reports by telling my chapters that this is their way to brag about all the wonderful things that they're doing. I remind them that our convention awards and merit programs are all based on the reports that are received. I want them to get credit for what they're doing from IHQ and our International Officers. I encourage them to boast! I challenge them to the best that they can be and to show the world what a great group of women they are. When they do something amazing, I praise them to everybody. When I was at the Province level, I encouraged them by challenging them as a group to be the best Province in the Fraternity. I got them excited about earning stars in our 5 Star Program, etc. They always get excited and competitive when it's Greek Week. You have to get them excited and competitive about being the best that they can be in ALL areas. Be really positive and upbeat. When they see that you have their best interests at heart, they will accept and respect you.
Dee
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