Thread: Dillemma
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Old 11-05-2001, 10:30 PM
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I think a lot of your sisters are siding with her because she is radiating more emotion, acting hurt, and threfore probably talking it up more than you have. Add a lot of "how would you feel if . . . " in there also.

She took the proverbial "walk of shame" or whatever. If its the worst thing she ever has to deal with than she is one lucky girl. I understand what Shadokat is saying, but this is "mush to do about nothing", its an issue she practically had to CREATE out of raw emotion, insecurity, and some kind of hay wired dysfunction.

I don't cater my life to the dysfunctional. Nor do I go that far out of my way to allow other people to create issues that I then have to deal with, there are enough real ones.

Take who you are going to be happy with and take her aside and tell her the real deal.
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