See, Pebbles, that's what I thought before also, that a woman is treated the way they carry themselves. But think about it, if you are 4, 5, 6 watching these men with all this money and money-hungry women in these videos all day every day, what thoughts are going to get ingrained as well? It makes a lot of sense to these stupid games men play and why they act like little boys. Why should be on one woman when a video tells you to make money and women will come? Why get in a relationship when men are the dominant ones in society? It seems as if videos can instill a sense of dominance and control in these men, and any woman who does not adhere to this is worth none of their time. And thinking about female videos, it's interesting that Salt 'n' Pepa, TLC, Janet Jackson, Toni Braxton, etc all came out in baggy clothes or conservatively, and did well, but as soon as they bared skin and stripped clothes, thier sales skyrocketed. Their lyrics betray thier actions, which may be another reason why men and women are so confused.
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