To respond, in part, to Rain Man, I believe commitment imposes enormous responsibilities on
both parties. It also offers tremendous benefits. Unfortunately, the divorce rate is sky high because, IMO, women get married with
only the the benefits in mind and men are simply NOT READY for the responsibilities and obligations.
I don't know whether the ultimate problem is immaturity or lack of understanding and communication, but I think it has less to do with feminism and more to do with this culture of entitlement. Marriage requires sacrifice and selflessness, and those are unfamiliar terms in modern society.