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Originally posted by starang21
but to date exclusively....you have to sit down and have a discussion on it. it's not an assumed thing. just because you're dating for x months, exlusivity shouldn't be expected without being discussed.
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I concur con mi amigo. Also, I would like to add that maybe there should have been an understanding in the very beginning of those x months. Then there wouldn't be an assumption. Now you don't have to tell a person all your business when you are getting to know them. That would be crazy. However, an open conversation about dating, relationships, friendships, promiscuity, etc... would help both parties understand who they are dealing with. Then there wouldn't be any surprises.
But I don't think dating women who are unaware of each other makes you a player. It makes you a liar if you are telling a woman that she is the only one. But if you aren't telling women that, then you are strictly exercising your GOD given right to be single. The only disadvantage is that you usually pass over a potential soulmate(s) exercising that right...
