[darling1]

i didnt watch the kirk franklin interview with oprah. i actually love oprah but couldnt bring myself to watch kirk talk about his problem. ive read all that many of you have written and it has been such a blessing to read. i cant help but still feel like he should have kept his mouth shut. im not sure why i feel that way; perhaps its anger that people dont respect the sanctity of marriage anymore and do such selfish things to destroy it. maybe im probably am such an idealist that i put people who profess to be of god and minister to folks daily at a higher standard. maybe i feel like if i can bust my hump and work, take my licks and deal with the good and bad in my marriage and not resort to behavior that will/could destroy my marriage, why cant other folks. i am FAR from perfect, but have we lost all sense of moral decency and common sense?

it does take alot for a person to share a part of their life, their marriage in front of an entire world. im sure kirk and his wife will be a testimony to some. when your spouse is working through some mess of his/her own, you are suppose to support unconditionally, 100%.

thank you ladies for sharing HIS word. ive got some reading to do and some conversations to initiate with GOD.

@rainman--im not sure why you felt you needed to share your story, but i appreciate your testimony. stay strong!

btw, did anyone catch oprah yesterday? i just want to say than GOD for being in this country and for the choice to determine what happens to my womb.