[DC_Zeta1920]

Originally posted by AKA_Monet
Awhile ago, I would have agreed with most of what the ladies are saying and pleaded against what the gentlemen and saying...

Now, life's different for me...

Let's be blunt:

Folks date various other folks for different reasons.

If you date a player, you know you are gonna get played. You might have a good time by getting in the VIP lines with sex in the Champagne Room. But eventually, you will get played.

If you date a nerd, you will develop a relationship with that person. You may not go to all the "hoopla parties" anymore and will have plenty of dinner dates. But you will have something stable...

Just like TonyB said, it is a matter of maturity and also you need to know what "equipment" you require and what the regimen you need to follow...

If you can slang dates 8 days a week, 25 hours a day, the go on wif yo' baad sef...

But if you cannot hang with 1 date because you are that "clingy" or "possessive", then maybe you ought to be by yourself awhile and get some perspective about what kind of relationship you really want...

Believe me, if you ain't figured it out once the ink is dry on the marriage certificate, then you will be having problems with "communication"...