I've REALLY learned about giving and taking. How both need to do both, in order to suceed. You can always give.. and you can't always take. Each party
needs to be able to give
and take from their partner.
I know that might sound quite simplistic.. but I've learned that in the 3 months I've been living with my husband-to-be.
Also - that it really is not worth it to get upset about every little thing.
PS- James.. your long post with everything you have learned from 2002 was awesome. SO MUCH of it is true.
