To clear up anything:
The paddle that I recieved on my birthday was a gold paddle lavilier, to replace my normal lavlier. It is tradition in the Gamma Gamma chapter that once a sister turns 21, you get the paddle charm from someone in your family, or a close friend (in my family, the little buys it for her big) okies?
If you want to see them, BPA has them in the catalog, along with most jewlery stores, or Greek catalogs!!!
I think most sororities around here do it....
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