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Originally posted by James
I wonder if guys might be more efficient at planning a wedding. We would do some research, we wouldn't be overly emotionally invested in it.
in a few weeks, we could have all the colors, invitations, place, catering etc. neatly arranged.
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James, I know you mean well, but you have only touched the tip of the iceberg (or ice sculpture)!
Case in point: I mentioned a few things about Carnation's daughter's wedding to my former fiance the last time I talked to him. I was telling him how similar it was to what all I had tentatively planned, and he completely weirded out! It was NOTHING that he wanted, etc, etc. I told him that it was one more reason why I thought we could never marry, because I had said time after time that I wanted a December wedding, and he had never really listened! and that made him even madder. A simple thing such a the season! I'm all about December weddings - look at how much money you save on church decorations!
I do think that the groom should have some say in the matter, but brides - being taught since they were children - have a better handle on things.
And besides, women can always burst out in tears when the supplier doesn't have the right thing, and thus get her way...
