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Originally posted by James
I wonder if guys might be more efficient at planning a wedding. We would do some research, we wouldn't be overly emotionally invested in it.
in a few weeks, we could have all the colors, invitations, place, catering etc. neatly arranged.
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I think somehow you are confusing what actually has to be done to plan a wedding with fantasy. Add to your simplified version of what it takes: everyone and their mother, sister, father etc...giving their opinions, trying to take into consideration 2 sets of families and what you and your betrothed want, a budget, and logistics into account and I think most men would give up after a few days.
I personally am not emotionally invested in my wedding planning, it is just a day after all- what comes after is what needs the real consideration...but if I left it to my fiance to plan, it wouldn't get done because all of the details would drive him insane as would all of the unsolicited advice.