damasa,
Greek life is different at every campus...maybe at your friends' campuses it is very much the stereotype. I know when I talked to people who went to other (bigger) schools, they couldn't belive I joined a sorority.
Your friends sound like they are being very immature and a bit jealous. I mean, if one of them joined a Christian group at college would you walk around calling them John The Baptist Junior? If your friends are going to treat you differently when the way you act around them hasn't changed, then it might be time to let them go until they grow up a little. If at all possible, maybe ask some of them to come to school to visit and meet your brothers. If they refuse to even "relax and free their minds or something" (to quote Butt-Head) then I would seriously re-evaluate if I want to be friends with such close-minded people.
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